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Maddalena Vario

Relationship Coach • London

The way we relate to others is a skill. It can be learned, understood and changed.

Most of us were never taught how relationships actually work, how patterns form, why they repeat, what drives us closer or pushes us away. I work with people who are ready to understand that, and to do something about it.

No commitment. Online sessions in English and Italian.

This might be for you if…

You find yourself having the same conversations, with different people, in different years, and nothing quite changes. You care deeply about the people in your life, but closeness sometimes feels complicated. You give a lot, and yet something still feels missing or unresolved. You are not sure whether the problem is the relationship, or a pattern you carry into it.

If any of that feels familiar, you are in the right place.

What we actually do together

My work is structured and emotionally grounded. It’s not about advice or quick fixes; it’s about helping you see clearly, your patterns, your triggers, the ways you protect yourself that may also be keeping you at a distance from the things you want most.
We work on how you listen, how you communicate, how you attach, and how you set limits without losing connection. The goal is awareness, and then choice.
Most people notice a shift within the first few sessions. Not because the people around them have changed, but because they have started to respond rather than react.
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A little about me

I’m Maddalena Vario, a relationship and dating coach based in London. I work with women and, in general, with anyone navigating complex emotional dynamics in their relationships, whether romantic, family or otherwise.

I came to this work partly through my own experience. The questions I explore with clients are ones I have sat with myself, what it means to stay close without losing yourself, to love without controlling, to accept without disappearing. I do not offer formulas. I offer a space to think more clearly, and a structure to help you move.

My sessions are available online, in English and Italian.

What Clients Say

The first step is just a conversation

The assessment call is free and without obligation. We talk about where you are, what feels stuck, and whether working together makes sense. There is no pitch at the end, only clarity about what the right next step might be, whatever that turns out to be.

Online · English & Italian · No commitment required